Happiness Needs Lot of Hard Work
Posted: Saturday, December 27, 2008
by Dhaval Jain
To be frank, this is the first time i am writing,thinking about others(readers of this blog), which is a bad practice for a writer,but i feel my sincereity and innocence of my words will convince you to overlook my mistakes and with this humble request i start my blog.
Cannot think of anything...what to start with...hmm tough choice but i feel HAPPINESS is a good topic to start this blog with.
He expected maybe i'll say money, sportscar,bikes,babes...and hundreds of things guys dream about( i am a guy for sure
)..but maybe in a philosophical fit i said,
" The only thing i want in life is HAPPINESS !!!"
There is nothing to get surprised and so he also was not. He said,"OK dude, so what are your plans to get in touch with happiness...i hope you have a strategy, pal !! "
I am not sure but ya this is the first time he said something sensible.
This is the question i want to ask my readers... WHAT STRATEGY DO YOU HAVE???
I read somewhere, that in life whether you are happy or not depends only 10% on your position or standing in life.....but it depends 40% on what you do to make yourself happy. SO WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY...??
And if the answer to this question is 'NOTHING'...then you are doing injustice to yourself. I know in life it is very difficult to feel elated about every God damn thing...i know it is hard to smile when tears are flooding your eyes and problems are ransacking your life.
But believe me...if you try to be happy,you can be happy and it is proven scientifically(just for my Einstein readers).
Please stop trying to change the surroundings...stop trying to change your position...stop trying to be someone else, just for HAPPINESS...because you will just never get it. Believe me whatever you achieve in life....status, money...nothing can make you happy....
Let me give you an example(not mine,read somewhere
)...you check it out yourself...say suppose you have have 2 choices...either you can go for a holiday with friends or buy a sports car(you have just enough money for only one thing)...go for the holiday trip...believe me you will get bored with you car after 6 months....same super dazzling car will seem monotonous...but the happy memories of your holiday will last forever and they will always add the spice of happiness in your boring life...you must have heard...SOME MEMORIES ARE FOREVER.
So this is the strategy, try to search for happiness....it will not come your way loitering around. Laugh out louder, atleast let your mind know that you are happy...spice up your life a little bit...do something new... get out of this virtual world you have made for yourself...go out and experience the 3D world...meet new people,talk to them. Do what you want and not what you should do.
Stop following grammar in life...stop applying mathematical formulae in everything...stop searching logic in everything, just go ahead touch the sky.
This is the least you can do for yourself....throw away the burden of expectations on your back and just be HAPPY.
Enjoy life.....and ya do post in your comments...i want to know from you people what are your views on HAPPINESS....
Signing off for now.....
Take care....
BYE.
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Top-level comments on this article: (1 total)Dhaval, your article was very interesting and holds a lot of truth. Welcome to Searchwarp.
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